I also highly recommend starting with a laptop instead of a phone. Once you get comfortable, it's easy to move to a phone, but without practice, there will be a lot of phones plopping over and falling. It's easy to fall into the Fabio-novel stereotype cliches, or repeat things you've heard in porn.If you're using a phone, make sure it's stable for the cum shot. I like using very real language, language I'd use during sex, imagining what I'd be doing and just slowing explaining every new movement, every new body part I'd touch ...I got him so turned on he had to excuse himself from the meeting he was leading to go jerk off in the bathroom before returning.Woman B: Probably the time I accidentally sexted his home phone (where his parents live) at, like, 3 in the morning. Definitely the best thing that ever happened to us.
Man A: I was sexting my partner while he was leading a meeting one time.Bright computer fluorescent lighting is not a turn-on.Man A: I was nervous the first time I had Skype sex. I'd recommend making sure you're in a warm room if you have a similar first reaction to shiver.Some nights, we'd also phone sex, describing things over the phone, knowing we were both masturbating on the other end of the line.
There was a lot of intense staring into each other's eyes while masturbating and/or fingering ourselves. Woman B: We used to have Skype sex when we were younger (and when I was less anxious and self-conscious), but it’s been years since the last time we did ...
Man A: We had a shared Dropbox folder where we would leave videos of us masturbating for each other.